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Are You a Christian Single Who Is Tired of Relationships that Don’t work and Bring Heartbreak?

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“Finally…A proven, simple, step-by-step plan for Christian singles to find the love of  their life and experience  an amazing love relationship that they want and deserve…”

Hi there,

Are you ready to find the love of your life?  If so, you’re in the right place.

Ok.  You might be thinking…

  • “Can I really attract a person who will love me for who I am, and not in spite of me?
  • “Should I come to terms with the fact that I will always be alone as a Christian single?”
  • “Will I have to spend hours, days, months – even years – with a person who ends up being another disappointment?
  • “Will I have to settle for less if I want to find love?”

“I can show you how to create your successful love plan and strategy, find the love of your dreams and enjoy that amazing love relationship you want and deserve…”

My passion is helping Christian singles like you to create a love plan that helps you…

  • Feel more comfortable being who you are, especially around the person your most attracted to;
  • Uncover your deepest requirements, needs and wants for your future relationship;
  • Discover a clear picture of what you want in life and a relationship;
  • Be able to ask for what you want from a person without seeming needy or pushy;
  • Learn the secrets for easily, effectively, and efficiently attracting the partner who’s right for you.

When you fail to think through what you really want in a relationship, you risk relationship failure.  By consciously creating a love plan that helps you clarify who you are, what you really want in life and a relationship and how you are going to get it, you will significantly lower the risk of disappointment and heartbreak.

Christian singles are often unclear about what they want in a relationship.  Lack of clarity makes it difficult, if not impossible, to know what you want or don’t want in a relationship.  When you are unclear about what you are looking for in a relationship, you can end up with just about anyone.

As a Christian single equipped with a clear love plan and strategy, you no longer have to look at finding the love of your life as a random act or process.  With a clearly defined love plan, you know who you are, what you want in life and a relationship and how you’re going to get there.  A clearly defined love plan and strategy that will help you balance your head and your heart so that you can stay on track, completely aligned and connected with your vision.

That’s what you really want, isn’t it?  A proven, simple, step-by-step love plan and strategy to help you focus on and find the love of your life!

Your first step is to sign up in the box on the left and get your free Sample Exercise on Relationship Requirements from the Love Plan Relationship Coaching Program.

My gift to you, full of valuable information to help you find the love of your life.

My Warmest Wishes for Your Success,

Dear Coach Scott

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Dear Coach Scott:  Why do I need the support of a community to find the love of my life?  I am completely focused on finding my life partner and I don’t need anyone else’s help.

The only problem I seem to be having is that I do not know where to meet potential partners.  So what that means is that I am not having luck in finding prospective partners.  Where are they?  Do you have any suggestions?

  – Focused On Finding My Life Partner

Dear FOFMLP:

Before I answer your questions, I need to share something with you.  You are in one of the most common dating traps that singles fall into when they begin their search for finding the love of the their life.  A dating trap is an unsolvable problem that results in unhappiness in a relationship.  The dating trap I am referring to is called The Lone Ranger Trap.  Let me share some facts that describe singles who are in the Lone Ranger Trap:

1)  You are in the Long Ranger Trap if you are focused on your goal of finding the love of your life and believe that the other relationships in your life are less important and that you don’t need anyone else’s help.

2)  You are in the Lone Ranger Trap if you evaluate the people you meet for their relationship potential and don’t take the time to make new friends.

3)  You are in the Lone Ranger Trap if you can’t see beyond your own resources and if it feels like no one is out there for you.

The best way to be successful in any area of life is to have supportive people involved.  No one is successful alone because we are created to be social beings.  Relationships survive and thrive in a community, but tend to shrivel and die in isolation.  It makes sense, therefore , to build your support community now as a way you can prepare for, find and keep a successful life partnership.

So let me encourage you to go and build your network of close, mutually beneficial relationships.  It will take time and effort.  But the reward is that when you deepen your connection with others, develop strong relationships and expand your circle of friends, you will improve the quality of your life and relationships.

Once you have built your support community, notice that you can divide people into three categories:  acquaintances, friends, and intimates.

1)  Acquaintances are people you know in certain places – such as church or work – but they have never seen the inside of your house or ridden with you in your car.

2)  Friends are people who share interests with you – such as basketball, baseball and football or art – but there are limits to the relationship, and you can lose connection with them when you move to another city.

3)  Intimates are your best friends, your close inner circle who know everything about you and will support you no matter what in times of crisis or need.

Take a close look at these people in your life.  How many, if any, would you consider an intimate friend?  If none, then is there anybody on this list you can allow deeper into your life?  Perhaps its time to bring this person closer to you for a more meaningful, mutually beneficial relationship.  What do you think?

Being with people who will support you no matter what will help you achieve your goals in life and in your relationships.  Where are all the prospective partners you ask?  Ask your intimate friends, the ones who know you best.  Chances are they will know someone who is good for you to meet.  And who knows?  It just may be the love of your life…

- Warmly,

Coach Scott

 
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